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Three questions for your first session

Most first sessions are spent working out where to start. Arriving with three things you have already thought about can help the session begin closer to where you need it.

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The Equal Psychology team Matthew Hallam (AHPRA PSY0002471369) · Natalia Cajide (AHPRA PSY0002474316)
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Who it is for

For anyone preparing to see a psychologist, GP or another mental health professional about stress or burnout. You do not need a tidy account of what has been going on. A first session is a place to name what is actually here, not to arrive with conclusions.

The three prompts give you somewhere to start, and give your clinician a quicker sense of what is most present for you. They are an option, not an obligation: fill in what helps you think and leave the rest.

For use alongside therapy, not as a substitute. This page is scaffolding for a first conversation, not a measure of how stressed or burnt out you are. The conversation itself is where the picture gets built, together with a clinician.

What is inside

Page 1, read first. What a first session usually involves, answers to three things people often wonder, and the three questions explained:

The most pressing thing
Most loud, most heavy, most in the way
The story you have about why
The conclusion you have already reached
What a shift would look like
The smallest visible change

Page 2. Three large boxes, one for each question: the most pressing thing, the story you have about why, and what a shift would look like. No box is required, and the order does not matter.

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How to use it

  1. 1Fill what helpsWrite a few sentences in any box that helps you think. Leave the rest blank. There are no right answers.
  2. 2Bring what is true on the dayYour three may change before the session. That is common. Bring whatever is true when you arrive, including "I am not sure".
  3. 3Bring it, or leave it at homeTake the page to your first session if it helps, or leave it at home. Either is a fine next step.

A few sentences per box is plenty, and partial is fine. The page is scaffolding for a conversation, not a script. You can type into the PDF on a computer, or print it and write by hand.

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General information only. This worksheet is general psychoeducation, not a clinical assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Reading it does not establish a treating relationship. If you would like personalised support, please book a Meet and Greet or speak with your GP. If you are in immediate danger, call 000, or call Lifeline on 13 11 14.