Being less harsh may matter more than being kinder
Self-criticism and self-compassion are two dials, not one. Research suggests the harsh side sits closer to distress, so easing it may be the first step.
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Self-criticism and self-compassion are two dials, not one. Research suggests the harsh side sits closer to distress, so easing it may be the first step.
Feeling adrift in your twenties is common and not a sign something is wrong. Meaning protects wellbeing, and searching for it is hardest without a sense of control. Small, values-based steps tend to help.
Many young men reach for a version of Stoicism that means feeling less. Research suggests that tends to track lower wellbeing and less help-seeking. The Stoicism that helps is about acting on what you can influence, not going numb.
Ongoing stress changes attention, memory and mood by acting on the same brain systems. The changes are real, and they ease as the load comes down.
Perimenopause shifts mood, memory and sense of self, often unseen. A psychologist on why these changes are real, common, and not yours to carry alone.
AI helps people think, but misses crisis cues and mirrors distorted beliefs. A psychologist's rules for safer use, with copy-paste prompts.
A reflection on the Five Remembrances, an ancient Buddhist contemplation, and how facing impermanence can deepen presence and meaning each day.
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